So, ladies, have you been waiting for your shy bloke or boi to 'pop the question' so you can say yes?
But sadly, the question hasn't been forthcoming from your desired partner?
Well, 2012 is a Leap Year and that means, we ladies may, without appearing forward or indelicate, 'pop the question' to our desired bachelor instead!
The tradition of marriage proposals by women to their beloved in a leap year, comes from a number of folk beliefs.
Saint Bridget was said to complain to Saint Patrick that men took way too long to propose, he replied, well let women have the the leap year to propose to the men.
In English law, February 29th was not a real day in law, therefore old traditions, such as women being unable to propose could be put aside and women could, and did, propose to their desired partner.
In Scottish law, in 1288, women were supposed to have been given the right to propose in a leap year. If the gentleman declined, he had to pay forfeit with a kiss, or a pair of gloves or a silk dress.
I was taught by my mother that I could propose in a leap year and if the gentleman was so rude as to refuse, he had to buy me a pair of white gloves as an 'I'm sorry'.
However, in Greece, marriage in a leap year is considered unlucky!
Do your family have leap year traditions, if so, share in the comments box below.
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